"Call me crazy, but I've noticed that white men appreciate dark-skinned women and natural hair even moreso than black men often times. Most of them that like black women want to have the "authentic" experience and are fascinated with afros and dark-skinned and all that stuff. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places. Everybody (black and white people included) seems to love contrast...."
"Sometime I feel it’s a mentality that we sometimes wear on our sleeves that exudes anger, low self esteem, bitterness and a slew of other negatives that aren’t the list bit attractive.
I repeat a message that has been repeated time and time AND TIME again. Stop looking to others to validate your self worth, your beauty, your sexiness etc."