Not mine:

"Unless a man-whatever race- does not see
a woman as a person first, that man should
leave that woman alone. he does not
deserve her. before i am black, i am
woman. note to men: unless the object of
your desire moves you to abandon your
preconceived ideas of what it means to be
other, and challenges you to find out for
yourself who she is, keep moving. you lack
the stuff that men bring into lasting
relationships!!! true story.
for anyone interested in dating
interracially, especially a black woman,
character is not optional!!! critical thinking
must be your strong point and genuine
attraction should be the seed that bears
actionable love- love not merely as a feeling
but a choice. a choice to act independently.
the prejudices are there: i will not rehash
them here. and, especially because of these
stereotypes, only those that are genuinely
interested need apply!!!"