"It's not about "giving up" or "denying your
sexuality", it's about realizing that all passionate,
intense desires, such as sex, the need to keep
your children safe, the need for emotional
connections, etc..... all that stuff isn't as
important as your body wants you to believe.
That's all biological, if you can recognize that
your body is what's causing you to feel so
strongly, you're on the first step to realizing how
silly it is. You can train yourself to separate from
the body, and realize that your ego and your
biological desires don't rule the roost, YOU do."